Baby showers in France: how to host one without copying the American playbook

The American baby shower, with pink or blue balloons and organised games, doesn't always fit cultures that are more private about pregnancy. Here's how to keep the spirit without copying it wholesale.

The right timing

Aim for month 7 or 8 of the pregnancy rather than earlier, out of superstition or simple caution. It's also when the mother-to-be still has the energy to enjoy the event without being too tired.

Ideas that work well

• A meal or brunch with close family rather than a big themed party
• A simple moment around the registry, with no mandatory games or imposed colour scheme
• A group card with messages for the parents, often more appreciated than expected

So everyone knows what to give without doubling up on ideas, Kickoala lets you share the registry as a single link before the event even happens.